Wednesday, November 24, 2010

16 Days of Global Activism Against Gender Violence


The 16 Days of Global Activism Against Gender Violence begins November 25th and runs through December 10th.   The first day of the 16 days (Nov. 25) is the International Day to Eliminate Violence Against Women and the last day of the 16 days (Dec. 10) is International Human Rights Day.  The 16 days is a Global Movement to raise awareness around issues of gender violence across the globe including:  domestic violence, genital mutilation, sexual violence, bride burning, sexual exploitation, etc.  One of the major priorities of the movement is the connect gender violence, and essentially the safety and livelihood of women and girls, to human rights.  

My interest and passion for eliminating gender violence is directly connected to my interest and passion for human rights.  I see all forms of gender violence, culturally accepted or not, as a direct assault on human rights.  I also know from my experience, both in the U.S and here in Mozambique, that gender violence impacts every aspect of a person’s life.  For example, in Mozambique it is not uncommon for young girls to be sexually exploited by their teachers or other school personnel, which then leads them to not want to go to school and puts them at risk for HIV/AIDS and pregnancy. 

Gender violence isn’t just about an act of violence that is inflicted upon someone.  It is about the impact that violence has not just on the person it is inflicted upon, but on their family, their friends, their community and their society.  Gender violence, no matter the act, is a violation of human rights and I urge everyone, everywhere, everyday to remember what these 16 days are about and do everything you personally can to Eliminated Gender Violence however and where ever you can! 

A sHoUt OuT




Happy Birthday to my little brother JACK!

He is 25 today! It seems like just yesterday we were two little kids playing school.  I was always the teacher and Jack was always the principal.  A funny fact about Jack is that he always wanted to be the boss/one in charge/the most important person.  When asked if he wanted to be a doctor once, Jack said, “I want to be the KING of the Doctors”.  It seems to me that he is still a pretty important person! 

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Triggering and Activating Explained!



SO I am sure that some of you are wondering the meaning behind “triggering” and “activating”.  As I am sure some of you know that I use these words a lot! And that’s because I use these words daily…often times several times a day and maybe even several times a hour.  It kinda just depends.

Triggering:  I use the word “trigger” when I have a strong, often negative reaction to something that at its core is oppressive or unjust.  It often occurs around issues of social justice.  It is just a feeling within my heart.  For example, when some makes a racist comment I become “triggered”.  Because I am highly aware and sensitive to issues of social and racial justice and because I regularly engage with others on these issues the words “trigger” “triggered” and “triggering” are all very helpful in describing a particular feeling.   

Activating:  I use the word “activating” when I want to use “triggering” but I can’t because what I am referring to it is not oppressive or unjust and really has nothing to do with social justice.  So it is mainly used to describe instances in which I don’t like or are annoyed  For example, if I am in a hurry (which you pretty much can’t be in Mozambique) and the person in front of me is moving too slowly… I will be activated.  This word is really just a lighthearted response to the word “trigger”.  It is meant to be funny and it is quite funny because people at first have no idea what it means or don’t get it!

Please feel free to use either of these words in your daily language… I would LOVE it! Having fun and interesting words/phrases to use on random or not so random occasions my conversation fun and interesting! 

Throughout this blog I will be updating you on both what “triggers” me (so more serious stuff) and what is “activating” (so more funny/annoying stuff). 

Frankisms


 For those of you who see me/speak to me on a regular basis you know that I use many colorful words/phrases to describe things and feelings.  I call them “lines”, although my parents have affectionately termed these phrases/words “FRANKISMS”.  And I know many of you are now thinking of all the “Frankisms” that you know or enjoy using yourself… and please by all means use them freely and often.  Sometimes Frankisms can me self explanatory, while other times the word or the meaning/use of the word might be completely random…which is what makes them so much fun to use and reuse and overuse!

 Some of the classic Frankisms are:
“outta control”
“butt hot”
“I feel as though…”
“not interested”
“keep it moving”
“that’s really weird”
“triggered”
“rude”
"i can't and i won't...never ask me to cause i NEVER will"
"things of that nature" (thank you ms. campbell)

Now these are just a few of the many Frankisms.... share with me your favorites… and also if ya have a new one… let me know… I am always on the hunt for new Frankisms!